My children were supporting me marvellously but they have lives to lead and every day we had a rota so that someone came in to cook my lunch and sometimes they stayed the night. I realised then that this is the best place for me.  I now have the luxury of my breakfast in bed and that’s lovely with the television on. To begin with, they used to bath me and shower me, and then as I got stronger, I was able to do more than I did before.  The staff are fabulous. Nothing is too much trouble.